Just listening to ‘somewhere over the rainbow- what a wonderful world’. What a beautiful song. Just plain lovely.
And the memories just keep coming flooding inside me. So many interesting relationships and people had walked in my short span of life and walked out also. So many face’s run past my eyes and so many sweet whispers of voices in my ears. I had such moments when you see a face turn and smile back at you. The eyes are together for those few unimaginable minutes of silence with so much being said without speaking. The smile on lips meaning only one thing and eyes trying to say ‘Yes’. The memories which remain with us as long as life is with us.
But then I have heard the same line repeated to me so many times after the best part is over that it too has become part of the memories now. The same thing which I laugh when I see in movies, guess all girls pick it up from movies only. “you are the person a girl wishes to be part of her life. You are all she can dream and you will surely one day find the girl who will return the same love to you”. ROFL. It’s so funny now to think about it. And without trying to be sexist; guys are blamed almost every time to be imperfect in our sense of relationships. My only concern is maybe, and just maybe at times the poor guy could do it better with subtle hints upfront of things not working up.
And what are searching for. Both gender’s.
Guys looking for those simple girls shown in movies as perfect life partners; Hot looking and perfect figure with clear fair skin. Loving, caring in nature, one’s who don’t look at other good looking guys because; hey! I am almost as hot as John Abraham so only I have right to ogle at other girls. Girls who appreciate our sense of humour even if all other feels its crap and outright cynical. Supporting financially by not doing shopping and understanding that our friends will laugh at us if you earn more than us so better do a shit job or don’t work at all. Respect our parents and family but don’t get to personally involved after all we are always involved emotionally via phone or WhatsApp if not physically. Cooks like Taj chef and cleans like British butler. Don’t crib about our waistline and brink of alcoholism but must be teetotaller. Is like Angelina Jolie in bed from Original Sin. Well the list can be further worked upon as per different set of choices Guys get in life but basics are almost these. Maybe.
Girls, well it’s even more complicated. The guy should be rich like Mark Zuckerberg. Handsome like Brad Pitt. Lover like George Clooney. Powerful like Prince William, etc. etc. etc. He should be caring, loving, romantic, but in the meantime only mine. He should not look at other girls and even if I let myself go and become puffy should find me beautiful. Help in kitchen even if I don’t like to cook so can take me to candle light dinner in five star hotels. Is not a mama’s boy and macho even if don’t treat women with respect. Should take me to vocations to Swiss alps like locations every three months even if doesn’t care if he visit his parent’s only on Diwali. Basically any asshole will work if he has looks and money. Maybe exception can be seen but then I have seen craving for such a life in most girls.
I am open to be dissected for such a shallow opinion of society. Picturing all with same brush. But then truth be told; I don’t give a fuck. I have seen enough guys trying to be Adam Sandler and enough girls to be Katherine Heigl. Thank you. So point is please come down on earth and start facing the reality. Relationship disaster are all part of life and are meant to happen. Just don’t get stuck with past. Enjoy today even if that means sitting at bar alone and having a drink. Forget about waiting for Mr or Miss perfect. It isn’t happening. The perfect picture in mind is crap and will not get complete. So just let yourself go. If you are lucky to meet someone nice don’t waste time for him to become awesome. Hangout and see if it works. Otherwise you can copy and repeat the line I have shared; which has been said to me by number of girls (don’t forget to change as per gender).
