The fear of dying alone in life is the worst a person can go through. I don’t know but I think all of us do go through this, in some part of life. That might also explain why this concept of having someone in life to share is so importantly shown in the movies. I blame them more than anyone else for this projection. I ask why do we need someone. We can have very good friends, very close family and bloody dog or cat or even our own self to talk to all the time. Why the hell we need a lover or wife/husband or girlfriend/boyfriend.
The simple reason for the same is the idea shown in movies that we can’t die alone. Or even to some extent the society as a whole thinks that kids are the reason why a man and women are together. They can be together out of just sheer need of company rather than biological production cycle. The same reason that company is the most important reason for marriage or affairs can be applied for lack of need of it. Why do we start thinking that company is must in life. We can spend time by doing what we love to do the most. We can share it with friends or family. Or even in worst case scenario with no one.
Off course some while say that this will become monotonous lifecycle and we might end up regretting it. But who knows the future. Also, in how many relationship are both person happy and completely satisfied. People say, compromises are to be done and that is how the life is lived. Both the partners have to compromise to a large or small extent to keep the relationship going. But I ask, if the whole idea is dropped and a single person start living the way he loves to live, will he not be more happy. I mean the whole point of doing something to please the other person will be over, and no one to say this was not expected of you. Well it might be too easy to say then done for sure. But by the look of it sounds very pleasing to the ear’s.
People can say I am judging for very narrow view and all of this is my own thinking. But all the thinking we see the world is our own only isn’t it. We are our own biggest reason for failure to take action and do something in life. We keep imagining the mirage of world view from our own mind and keep thinking that people are judging us, but instead we are judging ourselves all the time. Sometimes our own actions take us on the path we hadn’t imagined, but then all the paths are new in life. To keep walking in this darkness without knowing whether, the next step will be are last is the only option.
